This booklet series has been developed by specialist psychologists and medical doctors working in CNWL’s Sexual Problems Assessment and Treatment Service (SPATS). The information and exercises described in this booklet are based on psychological and sex therapy techniques that have been shown to improve sexual difficulties.
This series has been written for people of all genders, sexualities, sexual orientations, cultures, backgrounds and relationship statuses. While the suggestions and exercises in each booklet are based on principles that are relevant for everyone, some sections contain information about the biological and physical changes that can happen in specific parts of sexual anatomy. Some content and diagrams may not be reflective of your anatomy, including people who are intersex, people who have had gender affirming surgery, or people who have experienced physical changes due to specific medical conditions and/or treatment required. In these instances, if further information is required we recommend you speak to your GP or a specialist in sexual medicine. All bodies are different and we invite you to use the booklets in the way they are most applicable to you.
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Other booklets available in this series:
- Vulval pain during sex
- Difficulties with vaginal penetration
- Anal pleasure
- Getting and keeping erections
- Ejaculating sooner than you would like
- Ejaculating later than you would like
This booklet provides information to help you better understand difficulties with vaginal penetration and the steps that you can take to start to overcome them.
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Understanding sexual desire and enjoyment
Information about sexual desire and enjoyment, and what can cause difficulties with them.
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Understanding arousal
Information about what happens to your body during sexual arousal.
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General suggestions
Information about what can help enhance sexual desire and enjoyment.
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Communicating with partners
Suggestions for communicating with partners about sex and sexual difficulties.
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Frequently asked questions
Answers to some common questions about sexual desire and enjoyment.
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Further support